Today, more and more people in
all the different parts of the world are looking for the right partner with
whom they can “live happily ever after”. Many people succeed and many others
find it difficult to find the right person. But who is the right person?
According to Don Miguel Ruiz, “The right woman, the right man is someone who
wants to go in the same direction as you do, someone who is compatible with your
views and your values-- emotionally, physically, economically, spiritually.”
Some of the common reasons why people do not succeed in manifesting their ideal
relationships are negative attitudes and beliefs. If you believe that you will
never attract the perfect partner or that the ideal partner does not exist, you
will never manifest the right partner in your life. What you believe is what
you receive. It has been found that your relationships account for 85% of your
overall happiness. This means that a happy relationship can literally change
your life!
You can use the law of attraction
to attract your ideal partner. This powerful law states that you attract into
your life, whatever you give your energy, attention and focus to, whether
wanted or unwanted. Since your thought is energy, by holding certain thoughts
and vibrating a certain way, you become a magnet and attract to you people
vibrating at more or less the same frequency. Deepak Chopra was perfectly right
when he said “However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person
you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she
is the mirror of who you are inside.” If you are vibrating at a level of 85, it
is very likely that you would attract people vibrating in a range of 80 to 90
and very unlikely that you would attract people vibrating at a level of 10.
If you want to attract your ideal
relationship, you must become a “vibrational match” to the person you want to
share your life with. In fact, you do not get what you want but instead you get
what you vibrate. The vibrations that you emit can be either positive or
negative and the law of attraction will always respond to the vibration that
you are sending out by giving you more of the same. If you are a very positive
person, you will be emitting a positive vibration and you will be surrounded by
positive people. If on the other hand, you are a person who is always angry,
fearful, jealous, etc, you will be sending out negative vibrations as a result
of which you will tend to attract more and more negative people, situations and
experiences into your life.
If you want to attract your ideal
partner, you have to see what you are currently attracting in this particular
area of your life and what vibration you are emitting. If you are not
attracting the relationship you want, you will have to be very clear about what
you want in your ideal relationship. Clarity is of utmost importance. Most of
the time, it is very difficult to know exactly what you want in an ideal
partner. One of the best ways to become clear is to make a list of qualities
and characteristics that you do not like in your existing or previous
relationships. Once you have made your list, you can proceed by making the list
of characteristics that you do want in an ideal partner. The things that you
want are the opposite of the things that you do not want. For example, you can
replace “I do not want a quarrelsome relationship” by “I want a harmonious
relationship”, “I do not want a selfish partner” by “I want a generous partner”,
etc.
Once you have become very clear
about what you want in your ideal mate, you can continue with the next step
which is to become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want to
attract. How do you become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want
to attract? Well, suppose in your list you want to attract a loving and caring
partner. If you, yourself are not caring and loving, it will be difficult for
you to attract a loving and caring person. According to the law of attraction, you
attract what you vibrate. You must therefore start raising your vibration to
become loving and caring. It is only then that you can attract what you want
into your life. Stephen R. Covey said “The most important ingredient we put
into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.”
Once you have become clear about
what you want and you have raised your vibration to attract your ideal partner,
the last step is to allow your ideal partner to come to you. Allowing is the
absence of doubt. If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal mate but at
the same time, you have strong doubts, you will never be able to attract what
you want because you will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If on the
other hand, you have a strong desire and some doubt, you will attract our ideal
mate, but it will take a little longer. The best formula for rapid
manifestation of your ideal relationship is when you have a strong desire and
no doubt at all.
By using all the different steps
of the law of attraction in the right way, you will deliberately attract your
ideal partner into your life. Always follow the wise advice given by Russ Von
Hoelscher “Don't rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel
yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will
soon attract that special loving other.”
Author's Bio:
Priya Deelchand is a Corporate
Trainer, Life and Business Coach and Founder of Success Strategies Consultants
Ltd. She conducts several workshops on motivation, emotional intelligence,
success principles, management and leadership skills. She also coaches and
helps people worldwide in both English and French using Law of Attraction,
Emotional Freedom Techniques and other powerful techniques. Please visit us at http://successstrategiesconsultants.com
or call us on +230 7580695.
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